SOTM Tour: Month Eight of Twelve

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Are we really three-quarters of our way through the SOTM Tour? Holy hell. We’re getting into the home stretch! In just a few days, we’ll be flying to the US, which may end up being the final country of the trip (we will be in Germany and Malta later on, which we already visited early in the trip).

Here’s the best and the worst of the eighth month of our trip, which happened to take in some of the most beautiful islands and beaches.

Brunei Mosque

Destinations Visited

Koh Lanta, Ao Nang, Krabi Town, and Railay, Thailand

Bandar Seri Begawan and vicinity, Brunei

Manila and Boracay, Philippines

Boracay Sunset

Favorite Destination

Boracay — what a gorgeous island. What fine white sand. And the sunsets? I’ve never seen any better. The picture above was the best sunset of my entire life.

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In Koh Lanta, we spent our last days exploring by motorbike, visiting Red Snapper again, and enjoying the sunshine.

We then headed to Ao Nang, which was nice to revisit after spending so much time there three years ago. We took in a day trip to Railay while there, and I was glad we went for just a day as opposed to staying overnight. We also had a fun meetup in Ao Nang with three readers who quickly became friends — then we headed to Krabi’s night market and ran into three MORE readers!

Brunei was next — and what an experience that was. We stayed with Mario’s friends,”Allison” and “Colin” (you’ll see why I gave them aliases once I start writing about Brunei), and they made sure we had the most fantastic trip, letting us stay with them, feeding us, driving us around everywhere, and being sensational company throughout our visit — I can’t thank them enough.

Kate Speaking at JIS

Mario and I even spoke at three schools in Brunei, from the fanciest international school that looked like a college campus to a primary school in a floating village, where the girls wear hot pink hijabs and most people never town. We met with the British High Commissioner to Brunei in Bandar Seri Begawan. We talked with several journalists and got our sites and the SOTM tour featured in the country’s two main newspapers, the Brunei Times and the Borneo Bulletin.

In Manila, the highlight was definitely meeting so many cool people — and I finally got to meet some of my Filipina readers, something I’ve wanted to do for years! I also attended a gathering for the Pinoy Travel Bloggers and it was nice to get to know my colleagues on the other side of the world.

After deciding that we didn’t want to deal with overnight buses and chilly temperatures, Mario and I scrapped our original plans to head north and instead flew to Boracay for some beach time. The highlight of Boracay was definitely the sunsets — I saw the best sunset of my life there and most other nights were equally thrilling.


Memorable SOTM Pic

This is Josh, owner of the best beard west of the Mississippi. We met him and his wife Natasha in Chiang Mai and we’ve since seen them in Pai and stayed in touch online, to my great joy, as these two are quite entertaining. Josh worked on developing Snapseed, my favorite mobile photo editing app, so meeting one of its designers was probably the geekiest fangirl moment I’ve ever had.

Anyway, this quote was said to him during Burning Man, an experience that he tried to sell us all on (and I have to admit, I’m now more intrigued than ever). Read the full story here.

Cyma Mussels

Best Thing I Ate

Mussels make me nervous — mostly because Anthony Bourdain says that he refuses to eat them unless he’s seen how the restaurant stores their shellfish — but I had the best mussels of my life on Boracay at CYMA Greek Taverna. They were so fresh and filled with tomatoes, onions, and shaved garlic. I was sipping up the liquid like soup.

CYMA’s owner, Sunshine, connected with Mario through friends in Manila and invited the two of us to come dine with her and her friends at her restaurant, which features wonderful Greek food (the first decent Greek food I have ever found in Asia!), including flaming cheese (you must order it) and delicious meats, finished with a flaming mango topped with vanilla ice cream for dessert.

Seriously. Order those mussels and order something flaming. You won’t regret it.

Tune Hotels

Best Place I Stayed

I had heard of Tune Hotels, a budget hotel chain, before we got to Asia, but we didn’t stay at one until we got to Manila. While I hated the neighborhood of Ermita, they also have a hotel in the much nicer Makati for about the same price (we paid about $50 per night, but they have frequent flash sales, so be sure to check out the sites).

After so many guesthouses of varying quality throughout Thailand and the Philippines, it was nice to stay at a place that just worked — real mattresses with nice linens and comfy pillows. Air conditioning. Hot showers with good water pressure. An elevator. WORKING WIFI (and the only consistently working wifi we found in the entire city of Manila!). The room was tiny, but we didn’t mind that.

There are Tune Hotels all over the Philippines, Thailand, Malaysia, and Indonesia — and there are even a few in London and Edinburgh now! I hope to stay at more of them in the future.



This was a month with no major challenges, thankfully. Nothing beyond the typical hiccups of long-term travel.

That said, Manila is the worst city I have ever visited. It’s dirty. It’s ugly. There are no real sights beyond a UNESCO-listed church. The sidewalks crumble apart. The traffic is awful. The smells are disgusting. The poverty is heartbreaking. You need to go through security to get into coffee shops. Manila, in short, makes Phnom Penh look like Paris.

The unfortunate paradox is that Manila is home to some of the kindest, warmest, friendliest, and most welcoming people that I’ve ever met. I want that to be clear. Everywhere I went in Manila, I was welcomed as a long-lost friend, and within ten minutes, it was like we had been close for years.

And they’re aware of the state of their city. They deserve better.

If you’re planning a trip to the Philippines, you’re not missing anything by skipping Manila. (Do know, however, that some of the airport terminals are a 30-minute drive apart, so give yourself plenty of time if you are flying into Manila and on to somewhere else.) If you must spend time in Manila, I recommend you stay in Makati — this is the high-end part of Manila, filled with fancy malls. Then again, Mario saw a rat run through the middle of a nice restaurant in one of those nice malls, so there’s that.

As for the other destinations, I sadly found Railay to be much dirtier than last time. Not sure whether that’s an effect of time or seasonality, but it disappointed me nonetheless. Brunei was conflicting, wild, and beyond comprehension, and I’ll be devoting Β full post into unraveling it.

Boracay Pink Sunset

Most Popular Photo on Instagram

Finally, I have a new most liked photo of all time on Instagram! This photo of a pink Boracay sunset has garnered 302 likes so far.

After the photo of my Eiffel Tower/Champs de Mars sunset remained the top Instagram photo for more than seven months, THREE photos have eclipsed it — all of them sunsets on Boracay.

Boracay Beautiful

What I Read This Month

Labor Day by Joyce Maynard — I actually read the whole book in a single sitting. It was that good. I didn’t know much about the book when I picked it up, other than it was recommended by my friend Beth, and I think knowing nothing about it added to my enjoyment, so I won’t give anything away. Definitely worth a read, and it’s only $6 on the Kindle right now.

A Cook’s Tour by Anthony Bourdain — It’s worth a read if you’re a fan, but I much preferred Kitchen Confidential (which you should read first either way) and Medium Raw, collections of essays that didn’t feel as constrained by the material.

I prefer Uncle Tony in his natural state — being a badass and calling people out — and this book only had a little bit of that (I most enjoyed the chapters about himΒ getting drunk on vodka and eating borscht and smoked meats in Russia and tagging along on a wild girls’ night tapas crawl in San Sebastian). Uncle Tony hanging out in Saigon, happy and eating street food? A bit boring, frankly.

Hong Kong Ferry View

Coming Up in Month Nine

I’m currently typing this in Hong Kong! I love this place already. We’ll be here for 10 days total, then we fly to San Francisco on Valentine’s Day (a 40-hour Valentine’s Day thanks to crossing the International Date Line). We have a week in San Francisco, then five days in Los Angeles.

After Los Angeles we fly to New Orleans, and Month Nine will end with Mardi Gras. After that? It’s time for our #SouthUSA road trip from New Orleans to Charleston. Stay tuned for more details on that!

Any suggestions for Month Nine? Let me know!

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36 thoughts on “SOTM Tour: Month Eight of Twelve”

  1. Big accomplishment! Interesting to hear how some places have changed and others have stayed the same. Hilarious pic, I know I would want cheese fondue first!

  2. Love that I read AK for an escape from “routine” life in Charleston and you are coming here for a visit. It is a great city!

  3. I’m glad you’ve already visited the Philippines! I just hate that I wasn’t able to meet you in person πŸ™ I heard that you guys had fun in Linden Suites and that you have a nice voice in the karaoke πŸ˜€ Hope to meet you soon!

  4. Can’t wait for your South USA road trip! I hope I’m home, but I know Akila and the rest of the Atlanta gang will take good care of you.

    I’m also glad you enjoyed Tune Hotels, as I’m staying at the one in Melbourne.

  5. I have been dying to go to the Philippines for years. Your instagram pics had me chomping at the bit. I can’t believe you are coming to Nola! I’ve been living here for five years. Mardi Gras is a wild time. A lot of restaurants are closed though so stock up on some snacks for the parade route or get ready to shell out some $$. Same with drinks!

  6. “Manila, in short, makes Phnom Penh look like Paris.”

    Yikes, an indictment indeed. Isn’t it funny though how the harshest environments breed the loveliest people!?

    NOLA is fantastic – enjoy.

  7. Umami Burger and Wat Dong Moon Lek are both really good, well-priced places to eat in LA. Umami has locations all over and their truffle burger and smushed potatoes are incredible. Wat Dong is in the Los Feliz area and has some of the best Thai food in the city. Hillhurst Avenue in Los Feliz has a lot of good food as well, like Little Dom’s, The Alcove, and Mustard Seed (great place for brunch).

    If you catch a rainy day, make sure to go up to the Hollywood sign or the Griffith Park observatory the day after. City views are the best when the smog is cleared out.

  8. Sunset pictures, no matter how beautiful they are, can never fully express the feeling you get when experiencing it first hand. Especially a tropical white sand beach with pink and blue colors. I think the humidity holds more water in the air and gives a more spectacular sunset. I’ve experienced the feeling you had when you said it was the best sunset of your life. Its surreal, you feel as of your inside a painting. Sometimes you have to remind yourself that its real. Thanks for the pics!

  9. Please tell me you’re driving south on the PCH from SF to LA! Coastal CA, especiall the Big Sur area, is just gorgeous! Definitely do not drive on the 5, and really for someone spending the world travelling the globe the extra time to drive on the PCH compared to a plane flight is nothing!

    Also, I highly recommend getting out of LA to Joshua Tree National Park!

  10. I love the picture of the Boracay sunset and the Hong Kong skyline Kate: I adore Hong Kong. I was surprised about your feedback on Manila. I’ve never been but I’ve never heard it so described either! I look forward to your further journeys and your coming to Germany – great stuff!

  11. Crazy how time flies! I think when you started this trip I was still living in LA, planning on moving to SF, and I am sure I mentioned to give a shout when you are in town. I can’t believe you are going to be here Friday! Time is just a crazy thing…

  12. Sounds fascinating! Wish I’d been following from the start, now – but it’s great to catch up even at this stage.

    Looking forward to hearing about your USA road trip! πŸ™‚

  13. Sounds like you’ve had a jam-packed months! That sunset looks truly stunning. Have not heard of Tune Hotels before, but will definitely be looking into it before I head to SE Asia later this year, thanks for sharing πŸ™‚

  14. I’m glad you skipped the North and went to see Boracay instead πŸ™‚ though there is so much more to explore in the Philippines than only Boracay. The islands in the south are untouched paradises and people are incredibly friendly…

    About Manila… most people are culture-shocked when they see Manila…I understand if backpackers don’t like the city because it’s hard to get around and traffic is a nightmare. Beside shopping malls there is not much to see in Manila. But I never noticed the disgusting smell you were speaking of…

    I’ve been over 10 times to Manila and used to hate it, but this time I was like let’s give it a chance. Let’s try to get to know Manila better. And you know what, after spending over 2 weeks in Manila I started to like it actually, I don’t wanted to leave and even thinking of staying there for a while since it’s also a great hub to get around in Asia.

    Manila is a huge city, from the slums to the fancy upper class neighborhoods, you can have everything. I stayed in a wonderful place in Makati (Rockwell) and loved the area and the surroundings, it was like a secluded town within Manila, no traffic inside, small cafes and restaurants, people who would stop cars to let me pass the streets and everybody gave me a warm welcome every day.. I would certainly love to live there for a while… Manila is a city that nobody falls in love at first sight, you have to give it some time… Anyway, I’m happy you made it to the Philippines πŸ™‚

    1. Boracay was great — I loved it!

      And I hear you on Manila. The parts of Makati that I saw (aka malls) were nice. But Ermita, Malate, and even the famed old town of Intramuros — I could barely stand being outside for more than 10 seconds in those neighborhoods. And after traveling extensively in Southeast Asia, Manila really is in a category of its own.

      I did have an interesting conversation with an expat who chose to settle down here and his reasoning behind it. A huge factor for him was being able to afford a housekeeper, driver, chef, everything for $300 per month per person.

  15. Your sunset in Boracay is stunning! Excited to follow your Southern road trip as it is one of my favorite regions of the US! New Orleans, Charleston and Savannah in particular are three of my favorite cities and hopefully you have fun exploring what makes them so different! Oh and the FOOD is just the best anywhere…

  16. SWEET! I can’t wait for the Philippines Kate, I’ll certainly be looking back at your post of the things to do and the place to eat those mussels at! Enjoy HK and being in Cali!

  17. Sounds like a great adventure! We’re planning on going to mini version of your trip- we’ll visit couple of Eastern Europe’s cities, then to St. Petersburg, from Moscow with Travel all Russia Trans-Syberian rail tour to Beijing and then back to USA. It shuold take up to 6 weeks, can’t wait!

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